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    Exclamation Good sex is a right, not a privilege.

    So says this woman.

    In so saying, she acknowledges a great many stereotypes: the primary one being that, contrary to what women whine about on a regular basis, they really do not want a good, stable, honest man.

    That's boring, no matter how "good" they may be.

    No, what excites woemen is the next new bad boy.



    Here's the truth about why women 'go off' sex in long-term relationships

    http://www.telegraph.co.uk/women/sex...relationships/

    REBECCA REID

    15 SEPTEMBER 2017 • 4:21PM

    When it comes to long term relationships, women go off the idea of having sex with their partners before men do, says the National Survey of Sexual Attitudes and Lifestyle.

    But you probably already knew that, right?

    It’s one of those things that everyone has a low-level awareness of - yet no-one had confirmed it until now. But confirm it they have. So the big question is: why?

    Let's be clear - women aren’t less inherently sexual than men. Women, contrary to what you might have been told, don’t find it satisfying to grit their teeth through sex until they’ve produced children and then spend the rest of their lives faking a headache. That’s not what we want.

    As a woman, newer is always better. You should be constantly working towards your 'perfect' hair colour, career and partner

    But it seems that is what many of us are lumped with. The most shocking part? Just how quickly we get bored. The research found that women who had been in a relationship for more than a year were getting fed up.

    Twelve months. One single year.

    Perhaps it’s because of the way we’ve been socialised. We are taught to constantly reinvent and reinvest. A dress that you’ve had for a year isn’t exciting any more, you need a brand new one. Your athletic figure honed last summer? So behind the times. Now you need a massive bum and tiny tits.

    We’re expected to be in perpetual motion, changing and improving all the time. As a woman, newer is always better. You should be constantly working towards your 'perfect' hair colour, career and partner. The idea of being comfortable with something static, is a totally alien one.

    But aside from this idea that the status quo isn’t good enough - that we must improve or perish - there’s another reason why we’re getting bored of our sex lives so quickly.

    Simply, there is a lingering perception that sex isn’t for women. That it’s something done to us, almost in spite of us, rather than with us. There are numerous studies which prove straight women have the fewest orgasms, and that many women don’t come from penetration alone and therefore regularly go without sexual gratification. It’s well documented that a lot of straight women have crap sex.

    One of the few guarantees about sex is that the first time you do it with a new person, it’s exciting. Unwrapping them and getting to experience their naked body for the first time, discovering all the secrets that their clothes have hidden. It’s guaranteed to be interesting, even if it’s not actually good.

    Similarly, the first few times you have sex - even if it’s an orgasmless wasteland - you learn exciting new things. You understand their desires and their predilections. You become a sexual anthropologist.

    Don’t assume that your partner has 'gone off sex' because they’re getting older, or because they just 'aren’t that sexual'. Take responsibility for it

    And then the newness wears off. No matter what we do, none of us can be new again. Lingerie, role play, threesomes: they’re all different ways of trying to achieve the same impossible feat, a renewed sense of excitement. And if all that was gratifying and exciting about the sex you were having was the newness - then what’s left?

    Nothing. So of course you become bored. It’s a sort of 'catch 69' (to steal a joke from Carrie Bradshaw). The sex was fine because it was in your 'honeymoon period', so you didn’t raise your hand to say that you hadn’t had an orgasm.

    But now it's familiar and you've started to notice the mediocrity a heck of a lot more, but it feels too late to be honest about how little you truly enjoyed it the first few weeks.

    It’s the sex equivalent of not hearing someone’s name at a dinner party and then spending the rest of the evening making a sort of non-specific noise when you have to introduce them.

    I can’t count the number of times a man had told me that his wife or girlfriend doesn’t like sex, or has gone off sex. They discuss it as if it’s a personal insult, something that they’re suffering from. ‘Can you make my Missus want sex again?’ I’ve been asked dozens by semi-strangers in pubs and at parties.

    ‘I can’t’, I tell them. ‘But you probably can.’ All it really takes is an adjustment of attitude.

    Don’t assume that your partner has 'gone off sex' because they’re getting older, or because they just 'aren’t that sexual'. Take responsibility for it. Open a dialogue. Find out if she was actually enjoying the sex that you were having in the first place, or whether it was actually always mediocre and just made okay by newness and desire to make you happy.

    Women have a responsibility here, too. It’s lazy to accept unsatisfying sex, and it’s going to make you unhappy in the long term. Saying the words ‘Actually, I didn’t come’ might seem nerve-wracking at the beginning of a relationship, but they’re a whole lot harder to say once you’ve been together for months or years, and the first question your partner is going to ask is ‘why didn’t you tell me sooner?’

    Good sex is a right, not a privilege.

    But it doesn’t just happen. Like the rest of a successful long term relationship, it takes work. It might not sound sexy, but it’s true.



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    The trick is to get yours, then just toss her a vibrator and you go to sleep
    It's all about taking action and not being lazy. So you do the work, whether it's fitness or whatever. It's about getting up, motivating yourself and just doing it.
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    :takes notes:
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    Quote Originally Posted by Raginfridus View Post
    :takes notes:
    Toss 'em..

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    You're only as old as the woman you feel.

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    I think many women are raised to submit willfully to any sexual act that the man desires no matter how big of a jerk he may be. And then to honor the memory of that jerk, when the woman finally finds a man who cherishes her with his whole heart and wants to spend the rest of his life with her, then and only then is she to zealously guard her chastity.

    At least that is how it seems.

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    Ok... Here's a helpful hint for you guys... (And since the competition is pretty pathetic, it will make you heroes)

    View it as a challenge. The female orgasm is tricky. It's affected by her moods, her energy level, what she's eaten, the type of stimulation, the time of day, the brightness of the room, the weather, her memories, who is in political office, the color of her shoes... you get the point. The trick is to embrace each session as a challenge to unlock the mystery. It's like trying to decipher a complex combination lock that is always changing. But once you get that lock open, the rewards are yours! Until next time. The truth is most guys get tired of trying and get lazy (as long as they get theirs, right?). It takes time and effort to decipher a new code every night. But if you enjoy the challenge, she will be eternally grateful.

    I have no fear of my wife getting bored. We've been at this for decades. I might not always open the lock, but I get A's for effort, regardless. I feel bad for the losers that haven't figured this out, yet.
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    Quote Originally Posted by dannno View Post
    Toss 'em..

    :tosses notes: lol
    They fought the Wars
    They lost.
    They turned friends
    into enemies.
    Who became
    friends of our enemies.
    They stood alone, in splendid isolation,
    And said it was their only choice.

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    Quote Originally Posted by CaptUSA View Post
    Ok... Here's a helpful hint for you guys... (And since the competition is pretty pathetic, it will make you heroes)

    View it as a challenge. The female orgasm is tricky. It's affected by her moods, her energy level, what she's eaten, the type of stimulation, the time of day, the brightness of the room, the weather, her memories, who is in political office, the color of her shoes... you get the point. The trick is to embrace each session as a challenge to unlock the mystery. It's like trying to decipher a complex combination lock that is always changing. But once you get that lock open, the rewards are yours! Until next time. The truth is most guys get tired of trying and get lazy (as long as they get theirs, right?). It takes time and effort to decipher a new code every night. But if you enjoy the challenge, she will be eternally grateful.

    I have no fear of my wife getting bored. We've been at this for decades. I might not always open the lock, but I get A's for effort, regardless. I feel bad for the losers that haven't figured this out, yet.
    They fought the Wars
    They lost.
    They turned friends
    into enemies.
    Who became
    friends of our enemies.
    They stood alone, in splendid isolation,
    And said it was their only choice.

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    Can you imagine how feminists would react if a guy said that having sex was a "right"?

    I've heard feminists say that men have no right to have ANY sex, AT ALL, let-a-lone "good" sex. Especially around that time when Elliot Rodger murdered a bunch of people because he couldn't get laid.

    Yet this feminst can get away with saying that women have a "right" to good sex.. amazing..

    The thing is, sex is an essential for good health. To just tell someone, oh well, you can't get laid, just get over it? That is bull$#@!. Plenty of guys can't get laid at all. Some married, some not. Nearly every woman can get laid, it's just a matter of the quality of the lay.

    I think everybody should have the right to BUY sex, legalize prostitution. If this lady wants good sex, I'll give it to her if she pays me enough and I'm single at the time..

    But this double standard acting like men don't need sex at all, but women need good sex, uh, that is total BS.
    Last edited by dannno; 09-22-2017 at 01:41 PM.
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    "dumpster diving isn't professional." - angelatc


    "Each of us must choose which course of action we should take: education, conventional political action, or even peaceful civil disobedience to bring about necessary changes. But let it not be said that we did nothing." - Ron Paul

    "Paul said "the wave of the future" is a coalition of anti-authoritarian progressive Democrats and libertarian Republicans in Congress opposed to domestic surveillance, opposed to starting new wars and in favor of ending the so-called War on Drugs."

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    dannno, you ho. lolol.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Natural Citizen View Post
    dannno, you ho. lolol.
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    "dumpster diving isn't professional." - angelatc


    "Each of us must choose which course of action we should take: education, conventional political action, or even peaceful civil disobedience to bring about necessary changes. But let it not be said that we did nothing." - Ron Paul

    "Paul said "the wave of the future" is a coalition of anti-authoritarian progressive Democrats and libertarian Republicans in Congress opposed to domestic surveillance, opposed to starting new wars and in favor of ending the so-called War on Drugs."

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    Quote Originally Posted by dannno View Post
    Natural guy triggers dannno.

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    dannno's suave, though. In all of my years here, that dude has always talked about taking the ladies out and showing them a good time. He's probly the studliest one out of all of us. Or he's got the best herb. lol.
    Last edited by Natural Citizen; 09-22-2017 at 11:50 PM.

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    Quote Originally Posted by CaptUSA View Post
    Ok... Here's a helpful hint for you guys... (And since the competition is pretty pathetic, it will make you heroes)

    View it as a challenge. The female orgasm is tricky. It's affected by her moods, her energy level, what she's eaten, the type of stimulation, the time of day, the brightness of the room, the weather, her memories, who is in political office, the color of her shoes... you get the point. The trick is to embrace each session as a challenge to unlock the mystery. It's like trying to decipher a complex combination lock that is always changing. But once you get that lock open, the rewards are yours! Until next time. The truth is most guys get tired of trying and get lazy (as long as they get theirs, right?). It takes time and effort to decipher a new code every night. But if you enjoy the challenge, she will be eternally grateful.

    I have no fear of my wife getting bored. We've been at this for decades. I might not always open the lock, but I get A's for effort, regardless. I feel bad for the losers that haven't figured this out, yet.
    Ladies need helpful hints too.

    To fully satisfy a guy, simply follow the steps:

    #1 - Show up and be hot and totally naked with pizza and beer

    Just one step so should be easy to remember!
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