Originally Posted by
osan
When a man chooses to define himself in a way, only he can alter that definition. Others may hold whatever opinions they might. They are of no matter to the subject of those opinions if he decides they are not.
Mind is everything and life is all about choice. We often say "I had no choice", but that is a lie. We always have choices, even when the alternatives are unpalatable.
For example, I kill a man in self-defense. A common legal defense includes the proclamation, "I had no choice; he would have killed me." But that is a lie. A man may indeed choose to remain quiescent as another destroys him. That we most often do not, it is not a matter of the absence of choice, but rather of our deliberate choosing to act in preservation of our existences. Why then, do we not "own" this? Most likely fear, ignorance, of some combination. Legal reality, for example, strongly urges the intelligent man to play the victim in such cases because failure to do so may result in a long prison term. The "system" is corrupted such that one must play an expected role in the wake of such events in order to escape unjust punishment for having made the choice not to allow another to bring one's life to its premature end. You play the expected role and stay out of prison.
Imagine killing justifiably and exulting in the act, which BTW I find wholly acceptable, reasonable, and perhaps even laudable after a fashion. The local prosecutor would take this as criminal intent, thereby twisting your valid action into that of a crime, resulting most likely in a long stint up-river.
But let me digress no further.
Having choices, we choose. I say that you are what you say you are, even if nobody else believes you. You make what you are, and after all is it not your opinion of you that should count the most to you? One is certainly free to regard, weigh, and measure the opinions of oneself in relation to those of others any way he wishes, but given that it is within one's prerogative to consider his own firstly under whichever cases he may choose, then he rests within that prerogative to define who and what he is.
I decided long ago that I would be invincible. Why? Not out of fear, I can assure you. Rather, out of stubborn defiance of all who seek to trespass upon myself and all that I validly claim as mine. So wildly vicious is the violence of my opposition to trespass that sooner would I see all my worldly possessions stripped away than submit to the capricious will of tyrants. This bespeaks my personal wiring and I will not alter it for any man, cause, or other reason. Anyone attempting to alter me will find I am an impossible nut to crack.
Further, we are each of us invincible if we so choose not only because it is within every man's power to do so, but because where the only means of causing alteration is the force of men, even when they "win", they lose. How is it so? Precisely because they used the failed methods of force, which in itself demonstrated the failed nature of whatever it is they wish to impose, for either the logic of the position, its truth, or the fact that they went directly to violence in favor of reasoning, all attest to failure.
A man builds himself as he chooses. Why choose weakness, failure, and other deficiencies when one can choose strength and capability. 'Tis all in the mind. 'Tis all matters of choice, recognizing that one also acts in accord with the making. To declare oneself chaste, thereafter partaking in the entanglements of the bordello... Perhaps the gist is made.
Did I answer the question?
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