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To deservedly shame those that do it and bring us back to the more civilized culture this country once was. I am not saying there were not these problems in the past, it is just that it is more pervasive now and has escalated with the cultural and demographic change to this country.
It is a bit of a war on women from some groups, but I think "War on Women" in the thread title is a bit misleading these days since I do not see them promoting legislation or aligned with any political ideology. I do applaud them for launching this much needed campaign.
You do not have to be in poor areas of NYC to experience what she experienced. I have seen far worse behavior in the northern middle class suburbs of NYC from African American blacks and young Puerto Ricans and Dominicans. The campaign should probably geo-target to those groups since this kind of behavior seems to be rare outside those demographics and less extreme.
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Ok, so let's have a dialogue: do you have any ideas of how to stop this? What do you propose we decent men do about it?
And also, they ARE innocuous comments until somebody actually does make a threat. The vast majority of catcalls don't actually involve any direct threats, and touching falls under the category of assault. But ignoring that, what do we do about just the catcalling? If a woman gets assaulted, then obviously there are legal consequences, but what do we do about the catcalling? And furthermore, what does having a dialogue help? Even talking about it isn't making the individual men who engage in this behavior stop. What do we do? Please tell us.
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What exactly did these people do that is so wrong that people are comparing them to low class trash people? Talk to a girl walking the streets where young men congregate for 10 hrs while dressed to impress and them wondering why she got any attention? Human interaction is now seen as an evil thing low class trashy people do.
God bless you. Oops, I hope you can forgive me, I didn't mean to act all trashy and low class by saying that to you.
God help us all.
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What if it was a guy doing this to you and started to get overly aggressive. It would not occur to you that you might have to defend yourself or drop him? Now think of this happening all the time. How do you think it feels to walk around with that threat all the time especially if you think you may not be able to get away or stop an attack.
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How aggressive? did they touch you? block your path? or anything non verbal? Remember what we all learned as kids. Sticks and stones may break our bones but words would never hurt me. Something like that, sometimes I read threads on RPF and wonder if I somehow wondered into democratic underground.
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Sometimes I just wish someone would cat call me .
A girl squeezed by ass once at a dance club a few years back and I kinda liked it. Isn't that the saddest thing you ever heard?
Still not sure if this is legit or just more of the sanitizing of any butt-hurt from society and people.
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When I was a kid I thought all those women complaining about constant unwanted attention were just being catty and bragging--lording it over every less attractive woman within earshot.
Maybe all of this only seems to be targeted at men. Maybe this one battle is a war among women.
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You did not answer the question. I did not call for legislation but a return to civility which seriously lacking in today's America. I do not see how you equate people behaving in a civilized manner as a quality of the posters at the Democratic Underground.
That video was mild from what I have seen yet some of it concerning and likely scary for a woman having to deal with that regularly. This since there is always going to be that one guy where it becomes more than words, thinks he deserves her and will take it too far. (just like the example given in this thread). You never know which one it is going to be.
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Come to think of it, you're right. I didn't think of it before, but there is a guy on youtube who makes prank videos. I think his name is like David Ross or something and his channel is rosscreations. Anyway, he got tons of girls numbers just by walking up and saying "You're pretty, can I have your number?"
It really, truly does work sometimes. I hadn't even thought of that before, but it's true. If you want cat-calling to stop, then shame the women who encourage this behavior by responding to it.
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You think shaming is going to stop thugs from being thugs? Look, people who do this don't have friends who are going to sit them down and say "You should really stop doing that." People that do this have friends who join in.
Or were you going to suggest that guys start picking fights with cat-callers and putting themselves at the risk of being attacked?
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Ok, maybe I was cutting them too much slack, but it was for the sake of making a point. The point is that this stuff usually does happen in lower-class areas and there's absolutely nothing wrong with advising people to avoid those areas. Anyone who says there's something wrong with that is freaking delusional.
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Agreed. I was once at a club leaning against a table and some girl rubbed her hand across my crotch and smiled as she walked by. I was too much of a pussy to do anything about it in those days.
The best feeling was when I was at a bar with a friend, and we were talking to some woman. Out of nowhere, another cute woman approaches me and asked if the girl was hitting on me. I said, "No," and she said, "Good, because I want to." I ended up offering to give her and her friend a ride home, along with my friend, and ended up getting it on with her after I dropped off the others. Easiest lay ever.
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There is much behavior that be attributed to pop-culture conditioning. Over time it may work for some.
I do not think this is about simple cat-callers which is no biggie. Following a woman for five minutes and not leaving her alone in an aggressive manner is not simply cat-calling.
Conditioning through pop-culture may bring that aspect of one jerk in a group being told to cut the crap rather than them all joining in.
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I've been known to frequent a few biker bars where this broad in the OP would catch some flack too...
There's something to be said about sticking to places you're comfortable...
You'll not find me in NY state let alone the city, I don't belong there and have no desire to put them or myself through the hassle...
For Heavens sake, I could walk down the same streets as this broad and catch a load of crap too, then again if ya' send the dude in the purple suit out here to the sticks he's not going to fare well either...
People are not homogeneous no matter how hard some try to make it so.......
To answer your question, I needed to know how aggressive this cat callers were getting. Also, I didn't mean to compare civility to acting like folks from DU. I said in response to the post of people acting like what was shown in the video is a grave injustice to women. One even suggested women carry fire arms to protect themselves from men trying to pick em up.
You know what happens when one of the guy acts out of line? the other guys who have been attracted to you would want to be your knight in shinning armor and save the day. The guy acting out of line would most likely get beat really bad if there are enough guys in the area that still want you and every guy knows that or just guys who hate to see big men attack poor defenseless women will come to your aid. And I say most likely cos there is a small chance that if you had been rude and nasty with the other guys in the past, they may decide to back off and let you suffer.
I don't mind civility but then again I saw in the video and in my book what they did is neither good or bad. Talking to a woman you are attracted to in the hope she hears it and responds is very normal.
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