Originally Posted by
maybemaybenot
Okay, you're being a bit ambiguous here, its why my post blatantly asked if I was interpreting you correctly. Don't jump on me cuz you won't state your position. If the government is involved in marriage, must it not also allow gay marriage?
And no, polygamy and gay marriage are not the same here, two reasons:
1. The constitutional (and human rights) violation in banning gay marriage is that its blatant gender discrimination, the only difference from heterosexual marriage is who a man can marry versus who a woman can marry, which goes against the Equal Protection Clause because there is zero rational basis behind the law. Allowing everyone to marry in 2-person marriages does not violate the Equal Protection Clause, because every individual has the exact same rights to marry one consenting adult of their choice. Maybe there's zero rational basis for banning polygamy, but there's also zero discrimination behind, too, so no constitutonal violation. That's like saying Bob can eat a burger but Jane can't eat dolphin cuz its banned, that's not discrimination, they have the exact same rights, but banning gay marriage results in individuals that do NOT have the same rights.
2. In practice, polygamy actually has been shown to be abusive and sexist, even if polygamy in theory is not. Polygamy isn't some open marriage, hippie thing, its men treating women like maids/workers in an agricultural setting (usually). The very religious scriptures justifying it always involve gender discrimination, and virtually no one is trying to start a marriage with multiple husbands. Now, its possible that polygamy is just as backwards as monogamy was two hundred yrs ago, but the government turned polygamy into a black market $#@!hole like prostitution and drugs, so we're actually only seeing the worst of polygamy probably. But even then, there is a rational basis for saying "polygamy is a bad thing," even if its an illusion created by the legal prohibition of polygamy. We cannot look at gay marriage and point to a fact saying "gay marriage is a bad thing." As federal judges have routinely told attorneys, "you are clearly unable to articulate a single fact against gay marriage," (paraphrasing) which is not the case for polygamy.
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