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Biblically... Sex was the binding marriage contract... so unless you are having a very boring cohabitation you are biblically married.
So the argument is that people who get married before the government licenses their marriage are more likely to get divorced. When stated this way it becomes a lot clearer that the OP's argument is specious and overlooking a tonne of correlated indicators. Like maybe people who are willing to submit to the government are more willing to submit to each other.. etc...
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And some people will argue that. In fact, it's not that far-fetched to suggest because sometimes words do refer to practices only within certain faiths or other cultural communities. Christians will tell you that "marriage" is one of those words, and I would agree. That's always been the definition, and I don't see why it needs to be altered in any fashion to include people who are simply living together. Why not just call it living together? Why not call it a civil union or some other nonsense? Why does the word marriage have to mean whatever people make of it?
The definition has come under such scrutiny and such contention that, now, it means basically whatever you want it to mean, according to your cultural or religious beliefs. Do we do that with other words? Why are we doing this with the word 'marriage'?
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Its actually pretty hard to find very many marriages in the Bible that only involved one wife...
The often hypocritical fight to define 'marriage' is mostly a fight for control.
It stops Hindu's, bigamists, Mormons, miscegenatists, the polyamorous and currently homosexuals.
Clearly people were not getting 'married' in India for the past 5000 years. Marriage is for white Christian heterosexuals in binary pairs who have not only not cohabited but never had sex. With anyone. Well, the woman should not have had sex with anyone. If her freshness seal is not intact clearly the marriage is void.
I wonder how many on this forum are aware of how prevalent hymenoplasty is these days? It is notably popular among muslim women in France.
Last edited by idiom; 05-14-2012 at 06:34 AM.
In New Zealand:
The Coastguard is a Charity
Air Traffic Control is a private company run on user fees
The DMV is a private non-profit
Rescue helicopters and ambulances are operated by charities and are plastered with corporate logos
The agriculture industry has zero subsidies
5% of the national vote, gets you 5 seats in Parliament
A tax return has 4 fields
Business licenses aren't a thing
Prostitution is legal
We have a constitutional right to refuse any type of medical care
Why get married? Where do I gain from signing a piece of paper? I don't get it, as an institution. I'm neither for it, nor against it. As a rational adult, I just don't see why it is significant.
The legal reasons are pretty important.
http://debatepedia.idebate.org/en/in...._gay_marriage
http://www.glad.org/uploads/docs/pub...s-marriage.pdf
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I'm a left-leaning independent; "left" meaning that I favor public-oriented policy, rather than private-oriented policy.
My LAYdeee and I view it as a cost-effective means to spend time together. We enjoy each others' company, and living together affords us the opportunity to optimize our personal time and our finances. Marriage is something that would neither add nor subtract from that, other than the absurd expenses of a wedding.
Last edited by KingNothing; 05-14-2012 at 07:35 AM.
Am I the only one who doesn't believe in cohabitation, married or not?
If Rand does not win the Republican nomination, he should buck the controlled two party system and run as an Independent for President in 2016 and give Americans a real option to vote for.
We are all born libertarians then something goes really wrong. Despite this truth, most people are still libertarians yet not know it.
I thought it was gay marriage that was destroying the institution of marriage, now we find out it is only shaking up
Insanity should be defined as trusting the government to solve a problem they caused in the first place. Please do not go insane!
In New Zealand:
The Coastguard is a Charity
Air Traffic Control is a private company run on user fees
The DMV is a private non-profit
Rescue helicopters and ambulances are operated by charities and are plastered with corporate logos
The agriculture industry has zero subsidies
5% of the national vote, gets you 5 seats in Parliament
A tax return has 4 fields
Business licenses aren't a thing
Prostitution is legal
We have a constitutional right to refuse any type of medical care
The only time I was happy with my Ex after year two was when we were both sleeping in the same bed (warm in the winter, somehwat comfortable in the summer)...and I do mean sleeping! Cohabitation isn't the problem, being awake while cohabitating is the problem. Monogamy isn't natural in the longterm (short term it's very natural). Biologists have shown that the "7 year itch" actually occurs about 24 months after child birth occurs, meaning that two years after your last kid is born you can't stand each other for a reason...nature. Males were never meant to raise kids all the way from birth to adulthood...that's just an artificial construct of repressive religions. Only about 3% of species are monogamous, and most of those are monogamous for one mating season. We're supposed to breed, raise the kid until the female can take care of him/her on their own (in other words hunt/gather/go to work while the child is not with her for needed breast feedings), and them move on and repeat the process. That's how the human species perpetuates itself. In other news, love is a chemical reaction (mostly in mammals) in the brain and is purely a product of our physical brain, not an objective thing that all species feel. It's nature's little trick on those species with higher functioning brains (unlike, for example, reptiles) that enables them to rationalize their irrational actions...like breeding before they can afford to. It's fun, love, but it's just a chemical reaction. There really is no such thing. But that doesn't make it any less enjoyable, or worth pursuing for about 2 years. Just be aware, it goes away. Don't fight nature...you'll lose (either by them leaving you, or by you limiting your life experiences and genes to one mate).
BTW, the free love movement wasn't started by leftist hippies...it was started by individualists in the 19th century (the fore fathers of today's libertarianism).
There are immediately practical reasons for tolerating this petty tyranny (thought not so petty in many cases if ones uses his imagination). For example, if you live as a couple w/children for many years and your spouse dies, barring a sufficient will, you could be SOL in terms of the disposition of certain assets that might otherwise very automatically flow to you, were you "married" by the so-called "state". If your spouse ends up in an ICU or on a slab, your inherent right to see them at the hospital, for example, might not be respected as you are not "immediate family". This, of course, is utterly arbitrary bull$#@!, but it is what people must endure when they accept tyranny in their lives - or rather, then enough of their fellows accept it such that "the state" can enforce its will upon you, waggling its tongue in your general direction.
Traveling along lines of this general timbre, one quickly acquires an understanding of just how unfathomably absurd, mean, wicked, and corrupt this brand of arbitrarily tyrannical "governance" truly is. Just imagine your spouse dies, you have no children, the house is in their name only (for whatever innocent reason), is paid in full, and "the state" assumes ownership despite your having lived together there for, say, 40 years. You may inevitably manage in reacquiring the property, but at what cost? Do not consider only the dollars expended, which may be returned to you in some cases (though this seems unlikely to me, recalling the waggling tongue, per above). Consider the losses in time, which can never be recovered under any means known to humanity, and stomach lining just to name two additional factors.
As I am found of pointing out: in our courts, even when you win you lose.
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There is only one correct way: freedom. All other solutions are non-solutions.
It appears that artificial intelligence is at least slightly superior to natural stupidity.
Our words make us the ghosts that we are.
Convincing the world he didn't exist was the Devil's second greatest trick; the first was convincing us that God didn't exist.
Much win in this post. The whole marriage issue is one of the prime examples of the inordinate human "social" drive to adopt absolutely idiotic "values" and force them upon the individual most often to his misery and in some ways and degrees his destruction.
In this case, the classical notions of "marriage", be they Jewish, Christian, Hindu, Muslim, or pick your own major subdivision, are idiotic in the perverse extreme in that they do two things. Firstly, they impose what may otherwise be reasonably viewed as a perfectly natural proclivity (limited monogamy) upon the individual for an unnatural duration (until death do you part, i.e., temporally forced monogamy). Secondly, they prohibit you from engaging in certain sorts of free-association with your fellows, if not married. Back in the day, your ass could find itself in very hot water were you to simply shack up - especially if you were a woman (slut! whore!!) - all arbitrary bull$#@!.
Knowing that this was indeed arbitrary bull$#@! that did great violence to the natural right of the individual to exercise his inborn prerogatives along so many lines, the originators had to provide an unbreakable reason in the minds of people as to why it wasn't such. Then came the stroke of genius: "D00ds, this isn't my idea; it is the will of God. Hey, I'd let y'all $#@! any which way until you went blind, but God says it's a no-no and that anyone caught at it without being married is to be punished. If you have an issue with it, take it up with God and see whether he will change his mind." That last bit, being unlikely to happen in any way convincing to the human authority, pretty well sews up that authority to force people into having to decide whether to comply with the law or break it, whether to risk the consequences by breaking it, and whether to be stuck with someone you ultimately decide is no longer (perhaps never was) right for you.
No such authority to impose does any human being hold over another and I believe most firmly that the early empires, having arisen amidst the most ancient anarchistic tribal cultures, were keenly aware of this and that the rest of the population were as well. Therefore, the fiat had to issue from an unimpeachable authority: God. It has worked like a charm, for even in a time where men have sent other men to the moon, fly about the earth in supersonic cigar tubes, and hold in their hands the power to eradicate the world's largest cities with the turning of a pair of keys, we still cling to these wickedly unnatural and I daresay idiotic notions, the momentum of "God's" imprimatur and mandate having carried them through the ages to our time and to our great detriment.
By and large, humans are timid creatures in and of themselves, but wishing to possess the boldness of that miniscule minority that comprises the greatest among them. For the most part, we are a Walter Mitty race. The only path that may even remotely lead beings of so tame and flimsy a weave to such relatively dizzying heights of vicarious experience is to congeal themselves into a great mass that lies willingly at the command and behest of such superior men. They obsequiously lay to bed in such manner with their betters in the hope that they will be dragged along into greatness by the vortex wake that the superior man generates when he moves. It is only through that mechanism that the lowly coward finds the nerve to fly beyond the stunted limits of his own shriveled soul because the bravado and will which he finds as a cog-member of the greater machinery is not actually his own but that of someone else; someone far and away greater than himself. It is the remote command that propels him forward under a sad illusion of his own courage, greatness, and will. This, I am sad to say, is the nutshell summary of the human race as it has devolved since the first empires of antiquity. The species continues this proud tradition to this very day, promising nothing greater or fundamentally different into the foreseeable future.
Last edited by osan; 05-17-2012 at 09:01 AM.
freedomisobvious.blogspot.com
There is only one correct way: freedom. All other solutions are non-solutions.
It appears that artificial intelligence is at least slightly superior to natural stupidity.
Our words make us the ghosts that we are.
Convincing the world he didn't exist was the Devil's second greatest trick; the first was convincing us that God didn't exist.
freedomisobvious.blogspot.com
There is only one correct way: freedom. All other solutions are non-solutions.
It appears that artificial intelligence is at least slightly superior to natural stupidity.
Our words make us the ghosts that we are.
Convincing the world he didn't exist was the Devil's second greatest trick; the first was convincing us that God didn't exist.
Not necessarily. I am an agnostic, but I am also very religious. Some may think this is contradictory, but I assure you it is not.
The nature of my agnosticism stems not from uncertainty about the existence of "god", but of its precise nature. Of god's existence I hold no doubt in my mind. Everything I behold, I stare into god's eyes. Toilet paper: god. Pretty girl: god. Glass of gin: god. Chicken-eating fox whose brains I am about to splatter on the mountain: god. Bum peeing on himself on a sheet in August on the corner of Bowery and Canal St. in Manhattan: god. Images of nebulae, supernova remnants, and quasars from the various orbital observatories: god... and so on down the litany of my life's experiences. I do not doubt god's existence. What is incomplete is my understanding of god's nature. Is god "personal"? Is god aware of self; of me? Is god benign? Malevolent? All of the above? None of the above? Do any of my questions make the damned least sense to anyone or anything beyond the confines of my own skull? These are the sorts of uncertainties with which I do the old dance. The point here is that agnosticism, which is the mere absence of "knowing", is not quite so single-dimensional as some people take it to be.
The world is not that simple a place.
It amuses me that so many people run about like headless chickens in search of "god". I cannot get away from god no matter how I might try, which is not to suggest that I do. To me, God is everywhere, including the bathroom mirror where I am doing myself up in daily gorgeous fashion. How people came to separate themselves from god in the various manners to which I have borne witness seems odd, but I suppose that is the basis of the notion of "sin" - of being without. Of course, my quandaries regarding the nature of god leave me in a position of similar difficulty, so perhaps we have six of one and half a dozen of the other. Who knows.
freedomisobvious.blogspot.com
There is only one correct way: freedom. All other solutions are non-solutions.
It appears that artificial intelligence is at least slightly superior to natural stupidity.
Our words make us the ghosts that we are.
Convincing the world he didn't exist was the Devil's second greatest trick; the first was convincing us that God didn't exist.
Are my parents just weird then? They lived together for a year and a few months before they got married and they've been together for 25 yrs.
I think there are always outliers to every theory but I would say that cohabitation before marriage is probably harmfun. I think one should probably make a committment and live that committment for awhile before getting the fruits of that committment. Now does that mean that people shouldn't be able to make babies before getting married? No I don't think so. I think these studies are interesting to show what is happening or what has happened.
In my opinion I think cohabitation before marriage is a big reason divorce is common. Cohabitation is probably where a lot of these problems begin. I think when people cohabitate before marriage they tend to miss some vital steps that help ensure their marriage will last. Of course, these are all different for different relationships.
But again I'm not sure the op was trying to say that the government should force people to marry before they live together but was just pointing out the study. You can certainly disagree but lets try and be respectful.
-Ancap-
I only trust a 3rd worlder as a wife, and only until she gets her US citizenship. That's 5 years. repeat as needed.
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