It is all so simple, if you can only find a willingness to know self-evident and indisputable facts of objective physical reality: the evils you blame on government per se are in fact almost all caused by landowning and the taxpayer-funded welfare subsidy giveaway to landowners (which is also the principal cause of government corruption).
Government spending on services and infrastructure is the goose that lays the golden eggs. You see the hard-working sharecroppers are made to feed the goose, and your solution is to kill it. You just refuse to know the fact that the goose is laying golden eggs, and this renders you incapable of knowing the fact that those eggs are being taken by the landowner who contributes nothing to the farm or the goose's maintenance, rather than being collected to pay for its fodder. We can free the sharecroppers of their burden and still get the benefit of the golden eggs if we will only collect them to pay for the goose fodder rather than letting the landowner take them in return for nothing.