Yesterday, 08:57 PM
I know the feeling.
Remember: Always blame the Victim.
That is basically what happens when women look at guys that do their best to be honest and nice and then treat them like shit because they arent <insert imperfection here> and do not come across as gullible enough to help them get "married to the government". Too many women are not looking for a man to be a provider, they are looking for a govt to be the de-facto provider and exploit men to basically "get knocked up" so they can go collect child support and / or welfare.
In general, men have been shying away and flat out avoiding marriage because it is now seen as "too high a risk". Dont get me wrong, there are plenty of piece of shit men out there too. Womanizers, misogynists, abusers, liars, cheats, thieves, trailer trash, yet, those seem to be the guys with much better "Luck" than the truly upstanding men (of which not all men are), however, looking at those that they "hook up" with, I no longer envy them. There are only a few guys in good stable supporting relationships that I am envious of. I remember reading a stat that said something like 70% of women have children during their lives, yet, only 40% of men have kids? Those stats may be slightly off, but I remember that women had a much higher percentage than men by a ridiculous amount.