Today, 02:18 PM
It's not moot, the OP is asking which restroom should they use, in general, considering that most business owners HAVE NO PROBLEM WITH TRANSGENDER PEOPLE.. You don't get to make decisions for other business owners, most business happily welcome transgender people so when they go into those establishments, for example, which bathroom should they use? Again, the OP didn't specify this was your establishment and you had the knowledge, so I don't know why you would assume that or why you would project your values on all other business owners.
The vast majority of the population doesn't want to beat up transgender people like tod, and in fact most are pretty accepting of them. I don't encourage the behavior, I don't think they are brave, I think it is fairly destructive but ultimately it is their choice and that choice in and of itself I have no real problem with and also would not kick them out of my establishment if I owned one. I would prefer they use the restroom that my customers would be most comfortable with them using. In most cases, that is the men's room - in a few cases, some people born men pass really well as women and like your tree falling in the woods theory I would be ok with them using the women's room. If they don't pass well, I would prefer they use the men's room and I might even ask them to.
If one votes for the female restroom in the poll, then guess what? This tree is NO LONGER FALLING IN THE MIDDLE OF THE WOODS but on top of a bunch of people. If you say the men's room, then the tree falls in the woods.