04-09-2024, 07:29 AM
i went out with a borderline for awhile. She was actually very nice. Every once in a while, something would trigger and she would go into a spooky self-hating debilitating state where she wouldn't leave the house for days and couldn't function. Everything was great until the spell would take hold. Then one day, poof, she called me to tell me we were done and I never saw her again.
After the first spell, she told me about her history of mental problems that went back to her youth. Her parents were very normal, hard working and respected people. I blame her problem on the mental health industry and being allowed to get away with an unreasonable fit.
I read somewhere that BPD is treatable and usually works its way out over time. Its a good thing that it is a characteristic of them to change relationships frequently. I was not up for a roller coaster ride.
But the sex was amazing.
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