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    11-15-2018, 07:40 PM
    Ha. I can think of a few reasons, not having hit 30 yet. Smartphones and social media have really changed social interactions. You get social interaction from your never-ending social feed, not random conversations with strangers. You want to just strike up conversation with a random stranger in a line, or somewhere? Completely abnormal. You're now a weirdo, who must be trying to sexually assault or rob them (despite us being safer than ever ... but the MSM keeps fear at a fever pitch 24/7). Plus the internet which is everybody's rant space (plus everybody competing to have the interesting story that everyone can "smash like" on), so any time any guy tries to talk to you (a female), make sure to post how weird and creepy and dumb his conversation was - you know, for the laughs and validation of all the struggles you go through. That's toxic, be a guy - read enough of how creepy it is for chicks to have to talk to you, and you probably won't be doing that. Tinder is the worst app ever known to man. I should just bite the bullet and make a profile as a chick to see what it's really like to be a chick on there. But - as a guy who was actually blessed with good genes, but is short, and doesn't have pictures of how he's been to 6 continents (??? - Northern Virginia), I guess that doesn't cut it. The app is unusable. You get 50 swipes a day, and you'll probably go through swiping on 350 people (7 days) before you get a match. And this isn't for a supermodel. To retain your sanity, you don't even get to read the chicks profile, you're just rapid fire swiping to get through those 5 minutes, so that you only waste 35 minutes a week, rather than 70, or 100. The internet communication really hasn't helped much at all. Because apparently, while guys are getting a 0.2% match rate, apparently chicks are getting 75% plus (which probably makes sense ... because the guy's horribly low match rate certainly causes them to like more, in my case). So, they're matching with guys that DGAF (don't give a fuck) about them, but of course guys have to send the first message, so that's probably why chicks get trolled and get shitty messages ("because fuck 'em, ya know?). -But anyways, that raises a valid problem. Because now all these chicks have this huge pool of guys to choose from (giving the impression that they're valuable), and they have to choose, among these endless options. And they're terrible choosers. Because they've been raised in the "you can do anything age", and that it's women's time to lead the world, because they finally have the opportunity they've never had. And because they're so great, guys should just bend and break for them. But he still needs to be successful, and still be attractive (masculine), because he's a guy, ya know? It doesn't work like that. Guys are successful when they value themselves, and put themselves first, not sacrifice their opportunity for someone else or their bottom line. So, you can call the marketplace all kinds of distorted.
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