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    03-09-2018, 05:48 AM
    I fail to see where this is about “sexual assault”. She’s writing about things she consented to, but didn’t like. And ”I didn’t want to, but I did it anyway” is an integral part of being married, and sex is only a small part of that. I do things because my wife wants me to, she does things because I want her to. And in most cases, we want to do things for each other. I want to rub her feet because she enjoys it, she wants to bake for me because I enjoy it. Of course, if being with someone - sexually or otherwise - makes you physically ill, it’s on you to call it quits. And then ask yourself, why did I marry someone I can’t stand? Marriage, in the end, comes down to loyalty and trust. It’s often built on lust, but that’s a shaky foundation unless you shore it up with something more meaningful.
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    03-08-2018, 04:42 AM
    40+, never had a credit card, never will. Debit card, yes, but never credit card. And it's more than a little creepy that your "credit score" is based on having debt, when it should be the opposite. Ability to pay (net worth) and a history of paying your bills is what should matter.
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    03-04-2018, 01:24 AM
    Oh, I'm not arguing that socialism hasn't had a detrimental effect on Swedes. It absolutely has, in that people are brought up to think they have a right to this and that, and don't feel any obligation to contribute. It did kind of work way back when, though, back when people still had a sense of work ethic and when there was a significant social stigma associated with going on welfare. And even our own socialists used to acknowledge that we were blessed in having a mostly homogeneous population.
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    03-04-2018, 01:14 AM
    It actually kind of is. We have organized groups of internet vigilantes who try to link posts on social media to specific individuals and then report them to the police. Also, the way hate speech laws work here means that you only get prosecuted if you say something bad about the "wrong" group. In theory, the hate speech laws are supposed to apply to all ethnicities, but you only get prosecuted if you say something about the "wrong" ethnicity. Norwegians are okay to make fun of, Somalis are not. :(
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    03-04-2018, 12:55 AM
    It’s hard to explain, but Sweden is both very free and very oppressive. The thing to understand is that Swedes are extremely conformist, there is a strict framework which you have to operate in, but within that framework it’s a very permissive culture. Try to imagine a socialist Mayfield, if that makes any sense. Or at least that’s how it was. It’s also a very segregated country, meaning that the problems are mostly contained to certain areas, only more and more areas are being affected as the immigrant population increases. Immigrants start moving into an area-->Swedes start moving out. But it’s still possible to find Mayfields if you have the financial means to do so. For example, we’ve lived in our current home for about ten years, a community of roughly 2,000 people not far from Stockholm, and I have yet to see a single cop car anywhere close to where we live.
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    03-03-2018, 02:10 AM
    Yeah, we're far ahead of our neighbors on this one, as in the process is much further along in Sweden, and there's less willingness to even admit the current problems, let alone think about what will happen in the future. If I had to speculate, that may have something to do with us being able to stay out of WWII. In a way, we may have had it too good here and grown way too soft. Norway and Denmark were both occupied by the Germans and Finland of course had to fight first the Soviets and then the Germans. As far as what went wrong, the short and easy answer is that it's self-inflicted. We've basically imported people, allowing pretty much anyone to come here and be given free everything - food, homes, education, healthcare, etc. Kind of an obvious pull factor when you can increase your standard of living X times over and all you have to do is show up. There's also the problem that we've been fed for a long time the notion that all people are the same - not equal, the same - and that anyone can adapt to our society. And while it's possible to "integrate" one person into a community of 10,000, it's not possible to "integrate" 100,000 people into a community of one million. They just form their own parallel society, while feeding off of the native population in terms of resources. Because people are tribal and will usually band together with "their own kind" whenever possible. The people who come here don't want to become "Swedish", they don't come here for our wonderful climate and sunny dispositions. They come here because we have stuff.
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    03-02-2018, 06:42 PM
    FTFY. :p Yup. Speaking as a Swede, we're currently in the ethnic cleansing phase, which is most likely a prelude to genocide. In my lifetime, we've gone from being a 95+ % Nordic country to now somewhere around 70-75 % Nordic. And it's an accelerating process, Swedes will be a minority in the next 20-30 years, and will become a smaller and smaller minority over time. It's a demographic shift that makes the colonization of America look like child's play.
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